Dear Mr. Kowalski,
Monday, August 16th, 2010First I will apologize for a mistake I made assuming that the unwavering support of Freeholder Betty Kowalski by letter to the editor was from Edwin the husband, but Edwin is actually her father. Odd though that in the correcting letter from Edwin to the Suburban News, he only objected to the familial connection and not to the points I had brought up regarding his freeholder daughter insulting a resident at a freeholder meeting. Should the readers assume that he couldn’t refute those major points?
And I commend Edwin as a true parent being always supportive of actions of their child whether questionable or not. My mother at 90 years old thinks I was an exemplary son way back. A parent can only teach the values of life that are required, but whether they are instilled or practiced by that child are itself only by the child’s volition.
One way our children are judged is by those they hang out with. You should inquire exactly where Betty goes every other Thursday night. We find those Thursdays, she is hanging out in Elizabeth with some dubious gang that call themselves “the chosen freeholders”. If one paid attention during the times they hold their gang meetings they are wantonly spending nearly half a billion of our tax money every year without care, question nor expertise. Many taxpayers consider this close to extortion. To back up this feeling, the freeholder gang’s threats are written on signs throughout the county: “We are connected to you”. The residents should be afraid. Their schemes and agendas dissipate that huge amount of money and there is nothing to show for it. Look around the local towns throughout the the county. Do you see where any of this half a billion dollars goes every year?
A while ago Edwin, they actually made your daughter gang leader for a year and it appears that it may have been then she started the abuse of residents. Back then when members of the public confronted her with questions about where nearly half a billion dollars disappears to every year she denied them saying that this is not a Q&A session and they could only comment. Accountability, she has none. Maybe you weren’t aware of her egregious actions until just now when she verbally abused that Cranford resident and it appeared in newsprint. Yet you still disavow what she apparently has become. Pay attention when she comes home those Thursday nights. Ask her what she ate, and just as that gang noted in the past to the public, she may say just “a pizza and a sandwich”. However, her clothes may divulge the aroma of roasted chickens, beef ribs, cakes, pies and 15 types of cappuccino; a sumptuous feast for each gang meeting for such little work, all costing 10’s and 10’s of thousands of extracted taxpayer dollars over the years. They dine on our dime like the kings that they wish they were.
Make no mistake; she has become a gang member with blind allegiance to “the chosen freeholder” gang. Their gang mantra seems to be- Arrogance, disrespect, abuse, waste, answering to no one. We have all seen it.
As a good father we are sure you tried. But your daughter has become a sworn member of that gang and you can’t miss the signals. Possible intervention toward her would be the only resolution to return her to becoming a productive, honest and respectful person in the community. I am there if you need me to help. Good luck, Dad.



